Ok last night I logged on and started the long trek to switch from dragon to harm style. In which it took forever but I finally made it!
So now with my great new style that I have been seein that you can solo higher levels with and be able to own with, I start out by recallin to moonship ward. I go and turn on the one stance and start to med to learn some of the new skills great. ( keep in mind I am level 35 ). I got a few new moves and decide to walk up the hill and take on my first mob a level 28 2 dotter.
I get complety owned, and I am not even sure how it even happened

So then I say well it must have been a fluke and well it couldn't happen again lets go towards VT and try and kill some of the guys around VT that aren't the 4 dot ones but like 29 2 dotters.
Owned again

So then I ask a monk which he was very nice to take the time to respond ( if he reads this board thank you very much for the reply) for the secret on how to solo while harm. he says debuffs, and then drop all your dots and I can tell ya one thing maybe I am just a confused individual but I went and was trying to follow what skills I should be using and half of them he was telling me I did not have.
Before I go insane from switching the styles, how can I solo?? I know I am doin somethin wrong, i know I am. And another weird part about this I logged complety out and logged complety in, and when I was attacking mobs since I was dragon style before they were still gettin hit with the lightning

so please anyone give me some help before i go insane lol