Wondering how many points it takes to max out secrets damage?
Are you guys maxing your str/dex with gear at 50?
At the moment I'm using intelligence jewelry and str/dex on my other gear.
I can't seem to get above 8% on parry and dex.
If I can't max out on stats wouldn't it make sense to put  parry/dodge/crit on gear to achieve this?

I'd always go for as much Str as possible. This is our primary stat for dmg.
Couldn't care less about dex, just that it comes with Str on most items.
I haven't really noticed any viable Int gear, that would overall increase my dps, compared to a str/dmg rating item.
But if i had to choose between 16dex ring, or 16int, would go Int.
If you need parry just buy a crafted "of avoidance" item