"Alternative suggestions"
No need to really say how crappy the hp regen stance and ae attacks are.
I would love to have the chance to swap back to dragon style one day, after all I was stubborn to stick with it till the moment I hit 50. I just don't see it coming without big changes. That style needs some love and dps.

I would love to see a skill like eq2 brigand's Dispatch, so dragon monks would bring something to the raid/group other than personal dps. Adding this to Sundering Dragon Claw would be a perfect choice because the description is already stating: "Savagely tears through your opponent" now just add "leaving it extremely vulnerable for the following 20 seconds." and make it increase incoming damage by 30%. Also an increase to the damage component and refresh time would make it balanced.

Sure would be great to get a message when you succesfully knock a mob out of it's stance.

UI delay is annoying but you can add targetrefresh on pushing hands, so you will know when to stop knocking.
/cast "Pushing Hands"
/targetoffensive clear
/assist MA/MT

I got my skill updates from Flare Maidens couple days ago. Not sure if it was pure luck but at least it seemed to me that it was a lot easier to get 'em from the Flare ones than Flame Maidens. I only got one update from about 10 Flames and it seemed to me that they were always casting something else during the 50% spot where they usually tend to "teach" skills. Took agro on two Flares after that and got the updates.

Dragon style here.

Storm Dragon adding a proc just feels wrong as a stance.
Really would want to have straight +dps% stance with -ac or -parry/dodge which would feel natural compared to other stances. Could still give dragon style a lightning proc secret learnable with Aum to keep it but would be nice to get rid of that proc on our offensive stance. Changing this stance to +dps would also fix the stacking issues with secrets.

Dragon stance, I actually would want this to work and give us good hp regen that would be max hp% based.

Stone dragon stance, well I really don't see why the dps/ae style gets something like this and would rather see something that would enhance our ae damage as it would fit the style. If it's staying like this, at least that fire/cold rune needs to be fixed but it could also be given to Dragon stance instead and then replace this stance with a new idea.

Would like to get some attention to Dragon style ae's/skills also at some point but this topic is about stances and those flaws will get fixed someday.