I can;t speak from high level but at 15 I have been putting points into Wis. VIt,Dex and the rest as I will. As an orc i get 2 pts of strength per level anyway. I do pretty well solo. Some of the fights are long but I have yet to run dry on mana with the exception of one fight with a partner that we got to many adds. At 105 Wis though I am going to start dropping more pts into Dex and Con as I continue on. So far no complaints. And as a secondary healer he works well. i get a little nervous when I am primary but so far no one has died

In EQ Feign splitting took patience. Here it can take a lot of patience but I have succesfully split one mob off a group of as may as 6. It sometimes takes multiple feigns to get one to lag behind a bit but it can be done. I have used this to complete group quests that someone without Feign would just get ganged. The whole point of my post is go somewhere and practice and be patient.