We have DPS and a heal that requires a 5 minute reuse timer. ??
It is nice having a self heal, and I as a Kojani monk get a second heal in my racial.
No stealth? No speed? What do we have that sets us apart?
We get stealth, and speed. We also have many things that set us apart.
Do we ever get the ability to levitate the way the Master Monks of Tanvu do?
Yes
Do we ever get to use the sai's and martial weapons that the monks of the stronghold use?
Yes, but you'll find that your fists alone are amazing weapons.